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HOW TO BE A PILLAR

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A “PILLAR” IN THE HOUSE OF GOD?


Exodus 17:12 – The Purpose of a Pillar

“But Moses’ hands grew weary, so they took a stone and put it under him, and he sat on it, while Aaron and Hur held up his hands, one on one side, and the other on the other side. So his hands were steady until the going down of the sun.”

Anyone who has ever led knows that leadership comes with challenges. You may have heard, “Leadership is lonely” or “It’s lonely at the top,” but that’s not how God designed it. The greatest leaders in Scripture had strong people beside them, supporting them through their toughest battles. These individuals are what I call Pillars.

In Exodus 17, Amalek attacked Israel, and Moses instructed Joshua to lead the battle while he stood on a hill with the staff of God in his hand. As long as Moses held up the staff, Israel prevailed. But when he grew weary and lowered his hands, Amalek gained the advantage.

Moses did not stand alone. He had two pillars beside him—Aaron and Hur. As his strength faded, they placed a stone under him and held up his hands. Because of their support, Moses endured, and Israel won the battle.


The Role of a Pillar

Not all of us will be the Moses in the story. More often than not, we are called to be an Aaron or Hur, supporting the leaders God has placed in our lives. Without these pillars, the battle might have been lost.

When I was truly saved at 19, I dedicated my life to serving in my local church. Ecclesiastes 12:1 says, “Remember also your Creator in the days of your youth.” I realized that my time, energy, and talents could be invested in eternal things.

One Sunday, as I stood in the back of the sanctuary, I heard the Lord say, “Be a pillar for him.” I looked up at the physical pillars holding up the balcony and realized what God was calling me to be. He showed me three characteristics of true pillars.

1. Pillars Bear Weight

Pillars carry responsibility. Leadership is heavy, and God calls us to help shoulder the burden. Like Aaron and Hur, we must be willing to hold up the hands of our leaders so they can fulfill God’s mission.

2. Pillars Are Dependable

No one enters our church and looks at the balcony and questions if the columns will hold. They are trusted. Likewise, a true pillar in leadership is someone others can rely on—someone who does what they say they will do. Leaders shouldn’t have to wonder if we will follow through; they should know that we will.

3. Pillars Are Firmly Grounded

Pillars don’t move. They stand strong under pressure and remain steadfast through challenges. God is looking for people who are rooted in faith, unwavering in trials, and committed to the call.


Will You Be a Pillar?

Who is the Moses in your life? A boss? A pastor? A mentor? Instead of seeking leadership, perhaps God is calling you to strengthen a leader. If you have the opportunity to share the weight of the battle, don’t hesitate—step up, stand firm, and keep their hands steady until victory comes.

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BECOMING LIKE JESUS

BECOMING LIKE JESUS: THE ANCIENT PRACTICE OF THE SPIRITUAL DISCIPLINES

Every Christian aims to become more like Jesus, but this only happens with intentionality—just as Jesus Himself lived with purpose. The key to Christlikeness is found in what we call spiritual disciplines—the habits and practices that shape our hearts, minds, and actions to reflect Him.

Jesus modeled a life of discipline. He immersed Himself in Scripture, spent hours in prayer, fasted, and regularly withdrew to be alone with the Father. If we want to grow into His likeness, we must embrace these same practices.

Jesus Knew His Bible

Jesus’ entire ministry was built on Scripture. When tempted in the wilderness, He responded with “It is written” (Matthew 4:4). When teaching, He quoted the Law and the Prophets. Even on the cross, He spoke the words of the Psalms. If the Son of God lived by Scripture, how much more should we?

Regular Bible reading and study anchor us in truth and renew our minds (Romans 12:2). It teaches us God’s character, convicts us of sin, and equips us to live righteously (2 Timothy 3:16). The more we fill our hearts with God’s Word, the more our thoughts, words, and actions align with Jesus.

Jesus Prayed Constantly

Jesus lived in constant communion with the Father. He prayed before major decisions, such as choosing His disciples (Luke 6:12). He prayed in times of sorrow, like in Gethsemane (Matthew 26:39). He even prayed for those who crucified Him (Luke 23:34).

If we neglect prayer, we miss the intimacy with God that Jesus demonstrated. Prayer strengthens our faith, provides direction, and deepens our dependence on the Lord. To be like Jesus, we must cultivate a prayer life that is more than just requests—it must be a lifestyle of relationship with the Father.

Jesus Practiced Fasting and Solitude

Before beginning His ministry, Jesus fasted for forty days (Matthew 4:2). Throughout His life, He regularly withdrew from the crowds to be alone with God (Mark 1:35). Fasting and solitude train our hearts to hunger for God above all else. They silence the distractions of life and create space for His presence to reshape us.

Modern life is filled with noise, but Christlike transformation happens in stillness. When we step away from busyness, we make room to hear God’s voice and grow in spiritual strength.

The Disciplines of Discipleship

Spiritual disciplines are not about legalism; they are about love. They position us to be transformed by God’s Spirit. The more we practice them, the more we resemble Jesus.

“Whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.” (1 John 2:6)

Other spiritual disciplines include:

  • Worship: Glorifying God in Spirit and Truth.
  • Confession: Acknowledging and repenting of sin; speaking to someone about it.
  • Fellowship: Developing Christ-centered relationships.
  • Service: Serving others as Jesus did.
  • Evangelism: Sharing the Gospel and leading others to Christ.
  • Sabbath & Rest: Embracing God’s gift to refresh and renew.

Which of these disciplines do you need to grow in? Consider how Christ practiced them and how they can shape your walk with Him.

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PLAN YOUR VALUES

A values plan will help you align your life with God’s calling by clearly defining your core principles and priorities. The key component is a consistent reflection on those values; regularly revisiting your plan ensures you stay on course and remain grounded in God’s purpose for your life.

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ACTIVELY ENGAGE

Men must actively engage in spiritual disciplines, for it is through consistent practice that the transformative power of faith is unlocked and truly lived out in everyday life.

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CONSIDER THE CROSS

The cross is the heart of Christianity, symbolizing the boundless love and sacrifice of Jesus Christ, who turned pain into redemption, offering hope, grace, and eternal life to all who believe.

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