What if the greatest threat to your faith isn’t a fall—but a slow drift? Busy days, quiet compromises, and isolation pull us off course. But Christ is still your Anchor. It’s time to reset and return.
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THE SLOW DRIFT: WHY MEN DRIFT FROM CHRIST (AND HOW TO GET BACK ON COURSE)
Most men don’t wake up one morning and decide to walk away from Christ. It rarely happens in a moment. Instead, it’s the result of a slow drift—small compromises, unchecked habits, and subtle distractions that gradually pull us off course.
Think of a boat on the water. If the anchor isn’t set, it doesn’t take much—just a gentle current or steady breeze—for it to drift miles away without even noticing.
The same thing happens in our spiritual lives. And if we don’t recognize the signs early, we can find ourselves far from where God called us to be.
What Causes the Drift?
1. Neglecting Daily Connection with God
One of the first signs of drifting is simply neglecting time with God. Life gets busy—work, family, and responsibilities pile up—and we start skipping our prayer time or leaving the Bible closed. At first, it feels harmless. But over time, the absence of God’s voice leaves room for anxiety, confusion, and spiritual numbness.
Course Correction: Daily Scripture & Prayer
Start simple: commit to 10 minutes each morning in the Word and prayer. Begin with Psalms or Proverbs to center your heart. Write down a key verse and pray it back to God. This daily discipline keeps you grounded and reminds you who you are in Christ.
2. Isolation & Lack of Brotherhood
Another way men drift is through isolation. We stop showing up to men’s groups, avoid accountability, and try to handle life solo. The enemy loves isolation—because when we’re alone, we’re vulnerable to temptation, discouragement, and lies.
Course Correction: Christian Brotherhood & Accountability
Plug back into the community. Whether it’s a men’s group, church crew, or trusted friend, surround yourself with godly men who will challenge, encourage, and sharpen you. Hebrews 10:25 reminds us: “Do not neglect meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing.”
3. Compromise with Sin & Complacency
The slow drift often involves tolerating small sins—whether it’s lust, pride, greed, or laziness. We justify them, thinking, “It’s not a big deal.” But unchecked sin slowly hardens our hearts and dulls our sensitivity to the Holy Spirit.
Course Correction: Confession & Repentance
Make regular confession part of your rhythm. Ask God to search your heart (Psalm 139:23-24) and be quick to repent. Don’t stop there—confess to a trusted brother too (James 5:16). Consider adding fasting to the mix; it sharpens your focus and reminds you to depend on God’s strength, not your own.
4. Chasing Worldly Success Over Kingdom Purpose
One of the most dangerous drifts is when we trade our Kingdom purpose for worldly success. We get caught up chasing career goals, financial security, or personal achievements—only to find ourselves burned out and empty.
Course Correction: Sabbath Rest & Silence
Pull back. Schedule time each week to stop striving and realign with God. Practice Sabbath—set aside a day for rest, worship, and reflection. Use solitude to ask, “Lord, am I chasing what You’ve called me to, or what the world expects?”
Stay Anchored
Hebrews 6:19 says, “We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.
The drift happens when we forget our Anchor. But the good news is this: it’s never too late to course correct. God’s grace is always ready to pull you back.
So, brother—where might you be drifting? Identify one area today and take a step. Open the Word. Call a brother. Confess the sin. Rest in His presence. You were made for more. Don’t let the drift define you—let Christ re-anchor you to your purpose.
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Christians have valued the practice of Lectio Divina as a way to nourish the soul and deepen one’s relationship with God.
Practice these 4 steps, then reflect on how it impacts how you read the Bible.
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LECTIO DIVINA: DIVINE READING
Lectio Divina is a form of spiritual reading that has been practiced for centuries by Christians as a means of deepening their relationship with God.
The four steps of the practice are:
1. Lectio (reading):
The first step involves a slow and attentive reading of a passage from scripture. The goal is to listen to the text with an open heart, allowing it to speak to the reader.
2. Meditatio (meditation):
In this step, the reader reflects on the meaning of the passage and its message. This is done by asking questions, considering the context, and pondering the implications of the text.
3. Oratio (prayer):
After meditating on the passage, the reader responds to what they have learned through prayer. This may involve expressing gratitude, asking for guidance, or petitioning God.
4. Contemplatio (contemplation):
In the final step, the reader sets aside all distractions and simply rests in the presence of God. The goal is to allow the message of the scripture to penetrate the heart and inspire a deeper relationship with the divine.
Adding Lectio Divina as a Daily Discipline
Christians have valued the practice of Lectio Divina as a way to nourish the soul and deepen one’s relationship with God. It is often done in silence and solitude and can be a powerful tool for spiritual growth and transformation.
Now, it’s time to put it into action. Here are a few verses that you can use to practice the steps above to gain a deeper understanding of God’s word and draw closer to Christ:
Here is an excellent practice devotional on Glorify that reminds us that even in the wilderness, God can provide: A Wilderness Lectio Divina.
Try this approach and reflect on how it impacts how you read the Bible.
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