Wandson Santana

If the enemy can destroy your marriage, he can destroy your life and lineage. Fathers, you must understand that the best gift you can give to your children is to be faithful to your spouse. The Word says in Genesis 2:24, “…A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” Men must ‘hold fast’ to their wives and protect the gift that God has given them. Here are three consistent things you need to have in a healthy marriage:

I. consistent date night

This becomes more difficult with the busy-ness of life and children. Set it, put it on a calendar, and keep it. You’ll remember that you and your spouse are friends and not just parents to your kids. Have fun together. Be spontaneous.

II. CONSISTENT INTIMACY

Prioritize intimacy between you and your spouse. Protect the marriage bed. Schedule intimacy with your spouse. You must also understand that intimacy is more than physical, but also verbal and emotional. Have conversations, ask questions, and listen. We’ll say it again…listen. Let your spouse know they can trust you and make them feel safe around you.

III. consistenTly apologize

Forgive immediately. This is easier said than done. It is necessary to a healthy marriage to know and be unashamed of saying, ‘I’m sorry’. Don’t allow pride, unforgiveness, or a root of bitterness to form within your marriage.