Practical Advice

Don’t Ruin Your Life

“People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry at the Lord.” (Proverbs 19:3) Men, be careful not to ruin the life God has given you. A foolish man cannot lead himself or a family. We must understand that success is an anomaly. We all want health in our minds, bodies, marriages, families, ministry…you name it. Yet, we see many fail and fall into ruin. Here are 3 things that will ruin your life.

I. WINE

Alcohol, substances, and anything that can impair your mind or emotions leads to ruin. Guard your marriage. Protect your mind. Everything is permissible as Paul stated, but not everything is beneficial.

II. LACK OF BOUNDARIES

It is easier to drive on a road with painted lines and guardrails. Boundaries bring safety. Consider the boundaries in all areas of life, with the opposite sex, in your schedule, in your sleep habits, with entertainment (i.e., videogames & tv), with devices (your phone and laptop); you need solid boundaries.

III. PRIDE

Pride is a closed and hard heart. Pride makes you unreachable. Pride can hear the truth and reject it in conceit. The antidote to pride is the Holy Spirit and His guidance. Be humble or be humbled.

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FIGHT PORN

The internet is filled with porn and you are bound to run into it. Whether you find it unintentionally or it is an area where you are experiencing addiction, Covenant Eyes helps. The truth is 99% of men have looked at porn and may be actively struggling right now. This software creates a filter on your devices and allows you to setup allies to help keep you accountable. All men need this on their devices. If you think you don’t…you certainly do…no one is superman.

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A Book on How To Change

Today’s verified resource is one of those books you need to read as soon as possible. In ‘Atomic Habits’ you will practically learn proven methods to bring change into your life by inspecting and modifying your habits. Buy a physical copy or opt for the audio if you’re more of a listener.

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Be A Defender

Men were made to contend. The truth is that what the enemy means to destroy, men are meant to defend. Here are 3 lessons we can learn from Abashai in 2 Samuel 16:5-13.

I. Defend Your Friends

Everyone needs an Abashai. Proverbs 17:17 says “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Defend your friends and have friends who defend you.

II. Defend Your Family

Pray more blessings over your children than the enemy shouts curses. Do not let the world proclaim your child’s identity. Fathers must become a fortress in their homes. Watch what your kids watch, check the spirit, and go with your gut. Men protect their marriage. The greatest gift you can give to your kids is being faithful to your spouse.

III. Defend The Faith

If the enemy can steal your faith he can steal your future. You must determine your faith will be your foundation. The greatest inheritance you can pass on to your legacy is your faith. 1Tim 6:12 “Fight the good fight of the faith.” You’ve got to fight to defend your faith.

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