Relationships & Marriage

Men Must Commit

Commitment is crucial. Men must commit in the following three areas…

I. Commit to christ

Be committed to pursuing Christ. Radical dedication to Jesus is the only way. When you commit to Jesus, He commits to you. “I will contend with those who contend with you, and I will save your children.” [Isaiah 49:25 ESV]

II. COMMIT TO strong men

You need other men in your life who you can be radically honest with. You need men who bring truth to your life and not just comfort. Men who will encourage but also challenge you. Choose to be surrounded by and committed to other strong men.

III. commit to your family

Men are the head of the home. Thus, the home is on your head…you are responsible for the condition of your family. Become a skilled leader in your home and succeed there first. Commit to your family or someone else will.

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Don’t Ruin Your Life

“People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry at the Lord.” (Proverbs 19:3) Men, be careful not to ruin the life God has given you. A foolish man cannot lead himself or a family. We must understand that success is an anomaly. We all want health in our minds, bodies, marriages, families, ministry…you name it. Yet, we see many fail and fall into ruin. Here are 3 things that will ruin your life.

I. WINE

Alcohol, substances, and anything that can impair your mind or emotions leads to ruin. Guard your marriage. Protect your mind. Everything is permissible as Paul stated, but not everything is beneficial.

II. LACK OF BOUNDARIES

It is easier to drive on a road with painted lines and guardrails. Boundaries bring safety. Consider the boundaries in all areas of life, with the opposite sex, in your schedule, in your sleep habits, with entertainment (i.e., videogames & tv), with devices (your phone and laptop); you need solid boundaries.

III. PRIDE

Pride is a closed and hard heart. Pride makes you unreachable. Pride can hear the truth and reject it in conceit. The antidote to pride is the Holy Spirit and His guidance. Be humble or be humbled.

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Fight For Your Marriage

If the enemy can destroy your marriage, he can destroy your life and lineage. Fathers, you must understand that the best gift you can give to your children is to be faithful to your spouse. The Word says in Genesis 2:24, “…A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” Men must ‘hold fast’ to their wives and protect the gift that God has given them. Here are three consistent things you need to have in a healthy marriage:

I. consistent date night

This becomes more difficult with the busy-ness of life and children. Set it, put it on a calendar, and keep it. You’ll remember that you and your spouse are friends and not just parents to your kids. Have fun together. Be spontaneous.

II. CONSISTENT INTIMACY

Prioritize intimacy between you and your spouse. Protect the marriage bed. Schedule intimacy with your spouse. You must also understand that intimacy is more than physical, but also verbal and emotional. Have conversations, ask questions, and listen. We’ll say it again…listen. Let your spouse know they can trust you and make them feel safe around you.

III. consistenTly apologize

Forgive immediately. This is easier said than done. It is necessary to a healthy marriage to know and be unashamed of saying, ‘I’m sorry’. Don’t allow pride, unforgiveness, or a root of bitterness to form within your marriage.

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