Relationships & Marriage

The story of Samson shows us the slow process of sin-created-cycles that sap our strength, and shackle our calling, and reveal our need for Complete Salvation & Deep Sanctification. The problem is too many men get stuck in the Samson Cycle: Strong, but Shackled. The enemies playbook is mapped out in Judges 16:5. The enemy wants to Entice You, to Prevail Against You, to Bind and Afflict you. Enticement always ends in affliction…always.

We must understand that the Holy Spirit will not continually co-exist with a spirit of sin. The Holy Spirit has a process too, that is, first Conviction then Correction then Condemnation unless Repentance (God is a Judge after all). Through repentance, however, we find grace. Gods restorative grace is offered to all who repent. The Bible tells us, “But the hair of his head began to grow again” Judges 16:22. Sampson slowly began to receive his strength back as his hair grew. It takes time for hair to grow —> Restoration is a Process that Requires Commitment. If men can commit to being restored and embrace radical transparency, God can work. He will bring deliverance from the demonic forces of sexual sin plaguing men.

“You do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.” [James 4:14]

Time flies. Life feels like a vapor. Days, weeks, months, and years pass before our eyes. Recognize how fleeting the days are. We’re here today and gone tomorrow, so we must maximize every moment and make the most of our time. Soak in every good moment. Give it your full attention. Spend time with God, your spouse, children, and friends. Learn to put your phone down. Get off social media; the endless scrolling is stealing your life. It’s true; check your screen time. Instead, talk to God about what’s on your mind. Have an honest conversation with someone you love. Look your children in their eyes; play with them. Compliment your wife and make her feel special. Learn to enjoy every moment you have. Live your life with purpose, and don’t allow time to slip between your fingers like sand. Make the most of your time.

“Lost time is never found again.” – James H. Aughey

Commitment is crucial. Men must commit in the following three areas…

I. Commit to christ

Be committed to pursuing Christ. Radical dedication to Jesus is the only way. When you commit to Jesus, He commits to you. “I will contend with those who contend with you, and I will save your children.” [Isaiah 49:25 ESV]

II. COMMIT TO strong men

You need other men in your life who you can be radically honest with. You need men who bring truth to your life and not just comfort. Men who will encourage but also challenge you. Choose to be surrounded by and committed to other strong men.

III. commit to your family

Men are the head of the home. Thus, the home is on your head…you are responsible for the condition of your family. Become a skilled leader in your home and succeed there first. Commit to your family or someone else will.